Saturday, October 2, 2021

Writing Restoration: Gratitude

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I am humbled and beyond grateful—less than a week out from my first event for the International Women’s Writing Guild—Writing As Restoration—and the event is already full! How fitting then, that I’m posting today about the fourth topic of the 4-week writing circle, GRATITUDE. The synchronicity is blowing my mind!


Gratitude quite often begins from within, by acknowledging what we have to be grateful for in our immediate experience. And if we can treat each thing as a precious seed to plant in our figurative gardens, rather than just one item in a random list, so much the better.

Image from Pixabay

These seeds become even more powerful when we include others. At some point during the pandemic, I read an article in a wellness magazine about writing letters—not emails or text messages—of gratitude to others. I started last year, and it’s ongoing. Not only did this project allow me to reconnect with some people that I’d lost touch with, but it reminded me of how much love, grace, and support I have in my life.

All of this creates an energy that reverberates back to us, enriches the soil of our gardens, and waters each seed of gratitude until it blooms into a full blossom of vivid abundance and love.

If you’re reading this, I’m tempted to say that I’m sorry you’ve missed out on my Writing Circle this time. But really, it creates an opportunity for you to be part of the next one. Keep an eye on my upcoming workshops here, and check out what else I’m up, like the novels I’m working on, my coaching and mentoring services, and the upcoming launch of my podcast.

In the meantime, keep writing…I’m so grateful you’re here.

I’m a writer of magical realism, a mentor to women writers of all ages, and a story magic archaeologist. I hold an MFA in Creative Writing, and I live in Los Angeles with my husband and our two Imp Muses (cats) Stanley and Sofia. Join my mailing list for a free guide on story magic!

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Friday, October 1, 2021

Writing Restoration: Celebration!

Coming out of the dark, and into the light. Yes, celebration is part of restoration! Recovery and healing may not be reached in an instant. But we don’t have to wait until we feel the process is complete to celebrate. It’s important to recognize our milestones along the way, as well as our ultimate victory.

Have a look at the lyrics to Gloria Estefan’s “Coming Out of the Dark:”

Image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay 

Why be afraid if I'm not alone?
Though life is never easy
The rest in unknown
And up to now for me it's been
Hands against stone
Spent each and every moment
Searching for what to believe
Coming out of the dark
I finally see the light now
And it's shining on me
Coming out of the dark
I know the love that saved me
You're sharing with me
Starting again is part of the plan
And I'll be so much stronger
Holding your hand
Step by step, I'll make it through
I know I can
I may not make it easier
But I have felt you
Near all the way
Coming out of the dark
I finally see the light now
And it's shining on me
(I see the light)
(I see the light)
I see the light (I see the light)
Coming out of the dark
I know the love that saved me
You're sharing with me
Ever (I stand on the rock)
I stand on the rock of your love
(Forever) ever
(And ever) and ever
Can't nobody stop me, watch me
(Forever) ever
(And ever) and ever
Stand on the rock
Of your love is all it takes
No matter what we face
Coming out of the dark
I see the light
I feel your love shining on me (shining)
(Shining) Yeah, shining on me (shining)
I know the love that saved me
You're sharing
You're sharing with me (I see the light)
Sharing with me (I see the light)
Sharing with me (I see the light)
Sharing with me (coming out of the dark)
I cannot be in the dark
Making it into the light, yeah
Your love's shining on me (shining)
Shining on me (I see the light)
Shining on me (I see the light)
(Shining, I see the light)
(Coming out of the dark)
I see the light
I see the light (I see the light)
(I see the light)
Shining, shining on me
(Shining, shining)
I didn't think that I could take it (shining)
But your love helped me to make it (coming out of the dark)
Coming out of the dark
I see the light now
Yes, I see the light
(Shining) (I see the light)
(Shining) (I see the light)
(Shining) (I see the light)

You can also have a listen here.

Celebration is a powerful thing, and it’s the focus of the third session of my Writing As Restoration event that I’ll be doing next week for the International Women’s Writing Guild. As of this posting, there is only ONE space left, so there’s still time to learn more and grab that last spot here.

And if it’s gone, not to worry, I’ll be doing it again in early 2022. You can find out exactly when, also learn about what else I’m up to (novels in the works, editing, and mentoring and coaching), here. And I can also be found on Facebook and Twitter.

Meanwhile, keep writing, and keep celebrating!

I’m a writer of magical realism, a mentor to women writers of all ages, and a story magic archaeologist. I hold an MFA in Creative Writing, and I live in Los Angeles with my husband and our two Imp Muses (cats) Stanley and Sofia. Join my mailing list for a free guide on story magic!

www.writeranne.net ⁎ anne@writeranne.net ⁎ Twitter @wildwriteranne ⁎ Facebook Wild Woman Writer

Tuesday, September 28, 2021

Writing Restoration: Excavation

Excavate: 1. to make a hole or channel by digging. 2. to remove earth carefully and systematically from an area in order to find buried remains.

One of the most difficult parts of restoration, recovery, healing---and probably the most crucial---is going within. Digging deep. Excavating the raw origins of our wounds. Without this part of the process, as painful as it is, we can't move through our difficult times and heal them.

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Globally and individually, we’ve experienced unprecedented personal stress and loss. On the restorative power of writing, Julia Cameron is quoted as saying "Writing is medicine. It is an appropriate companion for any difficult change." With this in mind, I felt inspired to create a writing circle based on writing as restoration.

Excavation will be the topic of the second session of my online Writing Circle for the International Women's Writing Guild for four Thursdays this October (7, 14, 21, 28), right after Meditation, and preceding Celebration and Gratitude. 


It's been my experience that in order to do this important inner excavation work, we must access a part of ourselves that's always been there, but that we're reluctant to call upon it: what Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes describes in her book Women Who Run With the Wolves, as the wild self. Our most primal nature is unfettered and uncensored. It's my feeling that it's only in this deep place that we can find our authenticity as writers and in our writing itself.

Whether we're releasing into a journal entry, writing a cathartic memoir or poem, or crafting a novel that will be a balm for the wounds of the many, we need to access that part of ourselves that, as Estes describes herself as well: the "disguised criatura, creature... I swagger-staggered on high heels, and I wore a dress and hat to church. But my fabulous tail often fell below my hemline, and my ears twitched until my hat pitched, at the very least, down over my eyes, and sometimes clear across the room."

And in her Mother Night audio course, she goes on to say that accessing this wild self as creatives "strengthens you and excites your soul.. [and takes you] straight into the heart of what excites [you]." I might also add, straight to the heart of what heals you.

There's still room in the Writing Circle, but not for long! I'll be doing a giveaway of Estes' book during the second session, and the Guild is including a 3-month trial membership with registration! Learn more and register here.

Meanwhile, if I can help you in your journey to the wild writer spirit and the soul of the stories you have to tell, visit me here, and check out my current projects and upcoming podcast launch as well. 

I’m a writer of magical realism, a mentor to women writers of all ages, and a story magic archaeologist. I hold an MFA in Creative Writing, and I live in Los Angeles with my husband and our two Imp Muses (cats) Stanley and Sofia. Join my mailing list for a free guide on story magic!

www.writeranne.net ⁎ anne@writeranne.net ⁎ Twitter @wildwriteranne ⁎ Facebook Wild Woman Writer

Thursday, September 23, 2021

Writing Restoration: Meditation

Globally and individually, we’ve experienced unprecedented personal stress and loss. On the restorative power of writing, Julia Cameron is quoted as saying "Writing is medicine. It is an appropriate companion for any difficult change." With this in mind, I felt inspired to create a writing circle based on writing as restoration.

In my upcoming event for the International Women's Writing Guild (IWWG) starting on October 7, I will explore writing restoration as meditation, celebration, excavation, and gratitude.

The first of these subtopics, writing as meditation, has long been part of my writing practice. It all started when I read Natalie Goldberg's book Writing Down the Bones. In it she writes: "In 1974 I began to do sitting meditation. From 1978 to 1984 I studied Zen formally with Dainin Katagiri Roshi (Roshi is a title for a Zen master) at the Minnesota Zen Center in Minneapolis. Whenever I went to see him and asked him a question about Buddhism, I had trouble understanding the answer until he said, 'You know, like in writing when you . . .' When he referred to writing, I understood. About three years ago he said to me, 'Why do you come to sit meditation? Why don’t you make writing your practice? If you go deep enough in writing, it will take you everyplace.'"


When we write as a way to meditate (and vice-versa) we are forging a connection to our inner writer, or writer's spirit if you will. It has been my experience that this connection alone allows the kind of freedom and authenticity to write what's most important to us, the stories we simply must tell--the stories of our soul.

In my workshop, these "stories" may be anything from conversations in a journal; poems; the birth of a new character; memoir; the snippet of a new novel or screenplay---the possibilities are infinite! The important thing to focus on is the connection to our writer's spirit and the acceptance of the writer within. In other words, process before outcome. 

I once read that Hemingway would spend entire afternoons in cafes writing, but the first several hours were spent freewriting before he even began to work on any specific story or novel. When I engage in writing as meditation, I lead myself down into what I refer to as "the zone," which is highly meditative, but hardly quiet---on the contrary, it's teeming with light and color and ideas. I rarely have the kind of time to spend on this process that Hemingway enjoyed, but I often start out my writing practice with a few minutes of freewriting or journal writing such as Julia Cameron's morning pages in The Artist's Way. 

Some days I may be writing under deadline or so pressed for time that we can't afford the luxury of morning pages or anything else---I've got ten minutes to jot down the next few sentences of a novel, or the next few lines of a poem I'm working on. In those cases, if I can pull those few minutes into that mental space of listening and intention, I can still connect with my writer's spirit, and make those few minutes a writing meditation. 

I hope you'll join my writing circle next month. Space is limited, so don't wait too long! Even if you can't make the live sessions, you'll have access to the recordings as a registrant. The fee includes a trial membership to the IWWG. And those who attend sessions live will be eligible for drawings for free gifts, including copies of Writing Down the Bones by Natalie Goldberg, a Writing Down the Bones writing prompt deck, Julia Cameron's The Artist's Way, and Clarissa Pinkola Estes' Women Who Run With the Wolves.

In the meantime, if you'd like help connecting to your writer's spirit, establishing a writing practice, or working through a specific project, learn more here.

I’m a writer of magical realism, a mentor to women writers of all ages, and a story magic archaeologist. I hold an MFA in Creative Writing, and I live in Los Angeles with my husband and our two Imp Muses (cats) Stanley and Sofia. Join my mailing list for a free guide on story magic!

www.writeranne.net ⁎ anne@writeranne.net ⁎ Twitter @wildwriteranne ⁎ Facebook Wild Woman Writer

Wednesday, August 5, 2020

Ekphrasitic Explorations

This is the second ekphrastic poem I've ever done, which is a poem written in response to a work of art.  Henry Tanner's "Salome" has long been one of my favorite paintings. I am drawn to the deep blue hues in several of his pieces, without really connecting to the religious theme of the subject matter at first. Neither did I know the story of Salome, who is King Herod's daughter. Researching that story further for this poem not only led to a deeper appreciation of the painting, but gave me multiple perspectives from which to frame my poem.

Blue Note
By Anne Eston

(After Henry Tanner’s “Salome”)

I danced for him
but did not become
the lover I thought myself to be.

I step into the half-light.
Moonlight shimmers
on my nudity…

Waiting for a lover
who can see
the filmy hesitancy of my 
womanhood.

My hidden eyes will tell you,
my mother’s prize is not my own—
ignore the dead man in the corner.

I’m a writer of magical realism, a mentor to women writers of all ages, and a story magic archaeologist. I hold an MFA in Creative Writing, and I live in Los Angeles with my husband and our two Imp Muses (cats) Stanley and Sofia. Join my mailing list for a free guide on story magic!

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Tuesday, July 14, 2020

The Dragon Within

Today's session of Dorothy Randall Gray's workshop Writing the Rage, Healing the Soul was powerful. I had already taken the International Women Writers Guild's Free Write Friday on July 7 with Dorothy (read an excerpt of what I wrote for that workshop here), so I was ready to join her workshop today in its second week. Here's what flowed to the page today:


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(After "Dragons" by Sarah Kay)

She waits inside me, this stunning beauty,
harbinger of truth that will soon be
said out loud. I may speak in a whisper at first,
just as I was taught,
tail between my legs.
But as I find it, my silver, sapphire scales
begin to sparkle from beneath my skin,
shaming the façade
I've carried for so long.

I sing, and cry more loudly and sweetly
by the instant.
In the fervency of all I have to say,
my tail whips out and
levels your playing field,
scattering your kings and pawns alike.

I roar, and burn it to the ground.
Game. Over.

I’m a writer of magical realism, a mentor to women writers of all ages, and a story magic archaeologist. I hold an MFA in Creative Writing, and I live in Los Angeles with my husband and our two Imp Muses (cats) Stanley and Sofia. Join my mailing list for a free guide on story magic!

www.writeranne.net ⁎ anne@writeranne.net ⁎ Twitter @wildwriteranne ⁎ Facebook Wild Woman Writer

Tuesday, November 26, 2019

Starting Over at 70 - Guest Blogger Barbara Barth

I was truly excited to be part of Barbara Barth's blog tour for her new memoir The Unfaithful Widow Ten Years Later: My Life with Dogs and Every Day Magic, because she is a living example of what I champion for women everywhere, but especially for women writers: that's it's never too late to start over, never to late to pursue your dreams. And while I connected most with Ms. Barth's moxie and commitment as a writer, the whole book is an inspiration (check back for my upcoming book review).

Without further adieu, Barbara Barth on starting over (at 70!):
    
The introduction in my memoir ends with these words, I recreate myself each year, not to be different, but to find my creative path. I’m pretty much the same person I’ve always been; a homebody, a nester, a writer, sometimes antique dealer, and dog hoarder.  I don’t travel because I love coming home at night to my dogs. Still, life is full of wonderful adventures if you have a creative path and an open heart. With my big birthday (turning seventy) staring me down I decided it was time to make the move I’ve dreamed about for years, finding that Victorian cottage that has haunted my dreams. In 2017 I moved from metro-Atlanta to a quiet historic town an hour away as the crow flies.
       Other than wanting an older home and different scenery, I moved to recreate myself again. Life was easy and fun in my old home, but nothing changed. I would always be the same me doing the same things. I wanted to be more involved and my town was too big for me to make a difference with what I had to offer. In 2011, I had an antique shop in Old Town Lilburn, a small hub about thirty minutes from my house that became a writing/art center. While that adventure only lasted nine months it was a glorious time for me with book signings, art openings, music, writing classes, all taking place at my little shop, putting me in touch with so many talented folks. Visions of making that happen again danced in my head. Moving to a smaller area might make it possible, I thought. I took the leap of faith, uprooting my life of thirty years in the same house to begin my new adventure in 2017.
    
I discovered the Monroe-Walton Center for the Arts in Monroe, Georgia, a short drive from my historic cottage in Social Circle.  The director welcomed me, embraced my ideas for writing activities, open mic nights, a monthly writing group, and more.  I became the Literary Arts Chair on the Board of Directors, and while I’m not exactly Board material, meetings not my favorite thing, I wear my title like a crown and love being around all the members who enrich the community, teach me new things, and fill my life with friends.
     Inspired by all the incredible artists, I’ve started painting again, too. Mixed media pieces that are fun and keep me busy at night painting like I’m Picasso. I’m moving into a small studio space, a booth in an antique shop this month, where I can sell my pieces if anyone wants to buy them. I’ll also have them for sale in the gift shop at the Monroe-Walton Center for the Arts.    
     Now at seventy-one (OMG, really?), I’m energized, doing all those things I love. Change can be hard. Starting over can be scary at any age. A favorite quote says it all, “What if I fall? Oh, but my darling, what if you fly?” ― Erin Hanson.
I think I’m flying into my new decade.

Picking up where The Unfaithful Widow ended, Ten Years Later continues the author’s journey from widow to a slightly askew woman. A memoir written with warmth and candor on being single again, aging, and finding a creative path surrounded by dogs, friends, laughter, and a bit of craziness. Barbara Barth shares stories on the adventures that followed her first year alone as she moved headfirst into a new life, listening to her heart, sometimes not so wisely, but always full speed ahead. Join her on the ride of her life, from owning an antique shop to moving to a Victorian cottage outside of Atlanta, and all the follies in between. Going into the next decade with six dogs by her side, the author proves you are only as old as you feel, and happiness begins with a grateful heart. A funny and engaging memoir for anyone who wants to be their own superhero facing life’s good and bad moments.

Print Length: 374 pages
Genre: Memoir
Publisher: Amazon Digital Services, LLC
ASIN: B07YBNHXZG

About the Author, Barbara Barth

Author, blogger, sometimes antique dealer, dog hoarder, bedazzled by life. Widowed ten years ago, Barth writes about finding a creative path back to happiness. Her recent move to a 1906 historic cottage brought many surprises, including discovering the Monroe–Walton Center for the Arts where she started the monthly Walton Writers group and is on the MWCA Board as Literary Arts Chair. Barth is a contributor to Walton Living Magazine and a former blogger for The Balancing Act, Lifetime Television’s morning show for women. Currently she lives with six dogs, rescue dogs that rescued her.


Visit her website at barbarabarthwriter.com, follow her on Twitter @writerwithdogs, and follow her Amazon author page.